If your kid is alive and you haven’t killed anyone then today was a successful day. If you were able to accomplish more than that give yourself a pat on the back and take a well deserved break.
If you have a system for getting things done, feel free to share so we can all benefit from your knowledge. My house is a mess most of the time, laundry gets piled up, dishes fill the sink, but my son is alive and healthy and to me he is my number one priority.